It is OK not to be first social story
This social story helps children understand that it’s okay not to be first all the time and that taking turns is a key part of being fair and kind. It explains the importance of letting others go first sometimes and helps children manage any feelings that may arise when they’re not first.
Perfect for teachers, parents, and caregivers, this story teaches children the value of fairness and patience, helping them see that not always being first is an important step in building positive relationships.
What’s Inside?
Along with a 16-page social story, there’s also a shorter, adapted version with movable pictures to help engage children on each page.
Why Use This Social Story?
Social stories explain situations in simple, calm ways that are easy for kids to understand. They help children learn about social skills, expectations, and everyday situations. Social stories are especially helpful for kids on the autism spectrum or those who feel anxious when they don’t know what to expect.
How to Use This Story:
- Read it with your child in a quiet setting where you can focus together.
- Start by reading it twice with your child, then go over it regularly to reinforce the ideas.
- Try to include the story in your child’s daily routine.
- If the story is about changing a behaviour, read it when the behaviour happens (but not as a punishment).
- Give lots of praise and keep the experience positive.
To make the story last, you might consider putting it in a display book or laminating the pages for regular use.